The Perfect Date:

The first date is the most crucial meeting between a man and a woman. As we know most people can figure out whether they will see this person beyond the first date.

This guide is geared towards men, although women will surely find some valuable insight with these dating ideas. In any case, you can always forward it to the romantically challenged.

Setting the perfect place:

There are many adventurous opportunities to experience on a first date. In this article I will go into setting the perfect traditional date.

Dinner is a great intimate meeting activity. When setting up dinner with a lovely woman it is important to gather some critical information.

1. Find out her favorite cuisines. This will help you decide what restaurant to choose.
2. Ask her what she enjoys about it. This will give you details of her palate, if she can handle spice, prefers bold or soft flavors, experimental and an opportunity to pre-order appetizers.
3. Find out if she enjoys wine or what her favorite dinner drink is. This will win you great points when having her drink ready when you sit at your Table with appetizers ready. Most women are so nervous getting ready they probably haven't had a bite to eat in a few hours. Being considerate and addressing this possibility is huge points for you.
4. Gather info about her favorite color. Color can evoke emotion. Designers have been using this understanding to create an emotion in people. If she tells you her favorite color, it would be in your best interest to incorporate it throughout your evening. Don't make it obvious but wear accessories using the color and get her a single flower when you first meet, not a rose, with elements of that color. After the date if you would love to see her again send her a handwritten card with her favorite color.

Gathering these pieces of info will be a great first conversation which will allow you plenty to discuss and by seeking to understand and learn about her helps you gain a better understanding and give her the impression of your consideration.

The Restaurant:

When you have gathered the information you may begin searching for the best restaurant on her list. Begin searching on citysearch.com, read online for unique restaurants catering to her palate. Be sure to send her the web link to the restaurant so she can decide how to dress for the evening.

If she chooses Thai or Indian, it is safe to assume she enjoys bold spicy flavors. If she prefers Italian and Americana you can bet she prefers simple rich mild flavors. If she leans more towards steak and seafood, she is truly into hearty meals and can find plenty of options. Mexican and texmex can very between spicy and mild but you can guarantee tequila and margarita's are in the stars.

The week before the date, visit the restaurant you choose and ask if you may speak to the manager. Greet the manager with a smile and be very friendly, remember they are about to do you a favor. Explain to them that you are planning a date with someone special and came by to request preordering a table, appetizers and drinks for a specific time and date. Offer to pay for the appetizers and drinks now to secure the reservation.

Saturday is typically best for the date, due to work on Friday she may need time to get ready and you want to be sure she has enough time to be prepared to meet you. Most managers if you're respectful will go out of their way to help you create the perfect ambience.

Grab a drink at the bar and get to know the bartender, offer to buy them a drink, and tell them of your evening planned and see if they have any ideas. Tell them about your dates drink and ask if there is a variation they may like. Women love surprises, especially if they enjoy it.

When you leave, depending on the class of the venue, slip the manager and bartender a $20-$40 tip and thank them for their time and help. Be sure to call the day before the date to make sure everything is prepared.

The day of the date make sure you ask if she would need a ride. Be sure to ask with two options "would you like me to pick you up, or would it be easier to meet at the restaurant?" Leaving her the option allows her to choose without feeling awkward about you not knowing where she lives in case you're a stalker ;)

Have a single flower to show you're sweet but not desperate and use her favorite color. Be sure to have a spare jacket or sweater in the car, because we know ladies always try to be a hero and freeze to look gorgeous. Again, it is in your favor to be prepared.

These are some basic guidelines to set the dinner to be memorable for your date and really appreciate the effort you took in the details. In the net article we will discuss conversational ideas to give your date a memorable experience.

Attention to details set you from ordinary to extraordinary. Show respect, learn about her, and enjoy the night! If all goes well be sure to write a handwritten thank you card on stationary with her favorite color in mind. Thank her for a great evening, leave a gift certificate to the movies and invite her to meet you for a movie when she's free.

Enjoy the gift of life and be sure to share it!